When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away. Doesn't sound very exciting, does it? But it is!

Dr. Lannis - Captain Corelli’s Mandolin - Originally taken from St. Augustine

The above quote is just a reminder, about being happy and in love.

In this crazy world of fast and instant things, sometimes one really needs to lay back. Just to stepped back a bit and looking back to the road we took. Some people said, don’t look back. But, sometimes that’s all we need. To look back at the things we’ve done in the past. Of course, you can’t change your past, for sure. However, to me remembering the past is good as a real thing reminder. When it’s bad, you can figure out why and learn to be better. When it’s good then something that you can treasure and remember for the rest of your life. Something you can tell to your descendants, as a legend.


Even I’m smiling as I’m writing this now. Remembering all the good and happy times, I had.

According to my opinion, being in love is one of the greatest moments in someone’s life. It’s the wonderful feelings, butterflies, flushes, laughter and togetherness. As the time goes, those tools really work things out. Some people thought being in love is just about all the mushy and juicy. I guess, it's not. Fights, being pissed and sadness are include in the love-package.

Sometimes one just has to realize it again, and start to ask the simple question that usually forgotten.

“Are you happy with your life?”

Of course, the question is referring to life itself. Will one be happy with or without any life partner at one side?

Why don’t you - readers – try to ask the question to yourself? Who knows something really good and great will happen soon to your life.

Don’t complaint, ‘cause whatever that is, not going to make your life easier. But, smile a lot and feel happy, and then the people around you will feel the positive energy and love being around you. You’ll never know if there’s actually someone out there already keep an eye on you, just like one’s prey. Just wait for the right time and the right moment to hit you and BAM!!

I got you! *big grin*

It’s easy dealing with love, if you’d say so,
And it’s hard dealing with it, if you’d say so too.

The choice always comes back to ourselves, whether we want the hard ways or the easy ways. Sometimes people just don’t realize about this. They’re just go blind about everything regarding to love matter. Then, when you try to look back, it’s not necessary have to be the way you wanted too.

Sometimes, it just happens. Either you want it too or not. You just have to accept the feelings –negative or positive – you’ve got. No matter how strange the feeling you feel, it’s there.

Therefore, when it comes to funny feelings and it's kinda make you being silly, just embrace it! Wouldn’t hurt you if it’s not kill you, right? *wink*

So, just don't be afraid to fall in love and being out of love, 'cause it will soon presence itself in front of you. Whenever you're ready to embrace it...

Happy Birthday, Dhimas aka KulDab! I can't give you anything, just not yet, but this one note definitely a b'day gift for you!

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  1. asemik.. bahasa inggris!!

  2. hohohoohohohohoho....
    thaaankkk youuuwwww veryy mucchhh....

    Well i guess..
    people's life has its own ups and downs....

    It just being on the bottom..
    that sometimes all explodes at the same time....

    dunno what else i can say...
    but this...
    quite good enough for a little lift for the time being :D

    thankkk youuwww once moreeee...

  3. hahaha...blue...
    gak apa dong, sekali2 go international :D

    piye dab? :D
    yahh...sapa tau jadi lebih mendingan patah hatinya :D

  4. st agustine was a womanizer.. so u better read carefully what he said.. he's the guy who's been there and done that :P

  5. hohoho...there's JorJ here...
    thanks for dropping by, I will try to read it again, carefully...